I've been meaning to write a long post since I've been away for quite some time. Well I just think that life has been quite balanced these past few months. Seriously, life has been boring except that I have great company to waste my time with. Other than that, nah I'd rather stay home and get a lil busy with the new addition to the family.
By the by, My two girlfriends came over for a short while earlier. Just chilling and have some quick "wasting time" session. We had a short conversation about wedding/marriage. Now, one thing everyone has to understand. Wedding and marriage is two different thing.
Marriage, as defined by dictionary.reference.com is the "social institution under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife bylegal commitments, religious ceremonies, etc." Wedding, on the other hand is the ceremony/celebration of a marriage. In short malay term, "Majlis Kahwin" la. Being a woman, I do have my own dream wedding but I don't wanna be "dreaming" about it that I feel the rush to get married. Some women as young as my age are already "dreaming" to get married. For what I don't know. I mean fine if you have a special someone or you THINK that he/she is the one then I guess you can plan all you want. But what if you don't even have someone, or not even close to having a potential so-called "the one"? Why waste your time wanting a wedding so much. Some people can talk so much without knowing that they're actually not ready for a marriage. Wedding is just a weekend thing, but marriage is long-term ( lifetime perhaps?).
And what's wrong with browsing wedding pictures/photos? It really does not imply that you are planning to get married. Well for some cases, maybe..But not all the time.
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